Frequently Asked Questions

We know you may have a lot of questions, especially if you haven't attended a pakistani wedding before, so here are some answers for you.

Why are there three events?

A typical Pakistani wedding generally has many pre-wedding events.

The Mehendi (henna) Ceremony is one of the main parts, consisting of henna being applied to the bride. The families apply henna over a leaf to the bride and groom, and it is a night of dancing and festivities. The ceremony first starts with seven happily married women applying the henna, followed by everyone else. Years ago, the Mehendi night used to be separate, with the bride having her own event, and likewise for the groom. We have decided to combine the event like many other couples do these days.

The Baraat, also known as the Rukhsati, is one of the main events, held by the bride and her family. The groom and his family bring the Baraat (procession) to the venue, the family celebrates the marriage, and the groom takes away the bride during the Rukhsati at the very end of the night when she is given away by her family.

The final main event is the Walima, a grand reception held by the groom and his family to announce the wedding to friends and family. This is required to do per Islamic rules, and it is where the bride and groom are first introduced as an official couple.

Am I invited to all three events?

While we would love to have everyone attend each event, the tradition is for family members to attend the Henna Ceremony, family and friends of the bride to attend the Baraat/Rukhsati, and family and friends of the groom to attend the Walima. We will keep to this tradition so that the guest list does not need to be as restricted per event and we don't monopolize three of your weekends.

What should i wear?

Each event is semi-formal, so for all three events, wear your Pakistani/Indian traditional clothes, or even fancy dresses. The guys can get away with a suit and tie for all the events.The Mehndi is a colorful event, so wear your brightest colors if possible. We have no restriction as to what color you can/cannot wear.

Are there hotel blocks reserved?

We are currently waiting on that. Almost everyone is coming from nearby so we aren't sure if it is needed, but if you would like us to, please email us, and we will get it set up for you.

Can I bring a plus one?

In order to keep our guest list on track, we will only be able to accommodate those guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. Please feel free to e-mail us with any questions!

Can I take pictures?

In an effort to make out wedding video seamless, we please ask that during the entrances of the bride, groom, and their families, you please put your phones down. During the rest of the event, feel free to take any pictures you'd like, and don't forget to use our social media hashtag: #JustAs2 

Will there be alcohol?

As we both do not drink, and we would like to be respectful of our religion, we will not be serving any alcohol during our events.